Day 23: RAWR!

You know, when Nick decided to join the Marines I didn't know that they would not only break him down but also, break me down.

I called the post office today just to make sure that my letters were sent and wouldn't be returned to me or whatever and they said that it is virtually impossible for that many letters to not reach their destination or to not have been returned to me.

So, they must be holding them from him. I understand they need to break them down in order to build them up, but at this point it's killing him and me.

I think the worst part is that my husband, the man that means more than anything to me on this planet thinks I don't care about him. He thinks that I have forgotten him and that I don't care enough to write. I know that he will eventually get the letters and know that I have been writing and that I do care about him very much and that I miss him very much, but his letters are so depressing right now.

I am so emotionally, mentally, and physically shot right now it is insane. I have slept a total of 3 hours in 3 days so that doesn't really help all that much.

I am in "survival mode". A place where I do what I can to get by, but it isn't really living. Everyone has noticed that I am not my normal "bubbly" self, but what can you expect when my other half is so far away. He doesn't know what is going on at home and if Ava and I are okay. What we are doing or how we are doing. I am just doing my daily routines, I don't want to be around people or spend time outside of the house. I just want to hang out at home and wallow in my self pity.

I am in a FUNK.

I want to be out of this funk but it is really hard. If I got a letter from Nick knowing that he got my letters I think that would snap me out of the funk.

Well, I suppose that is all for now.

Stay tuned as the days grow longer and my heart grows stronger.

Day 19: It's time to grow up

This sickness must me clarifying because I feel so much peace and clarity. 

WARNING! If you get offended easily or could feel major conviction you should probably stop reading.

So here it is. I have been feeling extremely torn the past couple of weeks. Here I am a young wife and mother and all of my friends are single girls who are looking for fun. I am not saying there is anything wrong with being single or having fun. I like to have fun too!

BUT It comes to a point where "fun" isn't so fun anymore. I am tired of trying to keep up with my single friends that can party all night and sleep all day. I love them very much but I am a mom. Ava doesn't let me sleep all day lol. I chose my path in life and I wouldn't take any part of it back. 

I believe everything happens for a reason. God gave me my husband and my daughter. In the past couple of months I have seen more of my birth mother in myself than ever before. Going out with my girl friends a lot, going to hookah bars, etc. I am done with this. I NEVER want to be like my birth mother. Abandoning my daughter is not something I want her to ever have to know. 

Now that Nick is gone I really have to step up my parenting game. I am now mother and father (for now). I have to be sensitive and nurturing and stern and disciplining. It is hard. I never want Ava to feel neglected even if at this age she won't remember. 

I am feeling torn because I love my friends but I need to be able to be the best mother and wife I can be and I don't know if I can do that and maintain my friendships.

So here is the change.. this is the part where I grow up.. and apart from the ways of the world.. and if that means losing friends.. so be it.. 

God has called me for so much more. It is time to grow up, stop talking and start listening.

I suppose that is all for now.. Stay tuned as the days grow longer and my heart grows stronger.

Day 17: Just Happy!

Man I don't know about you but, every once in a while I have those days where I wake up in such a FABULOUS mood that nothing can go wrong. Today is totally one of those days!

It doesn't bother me that I have a room full of mean, screaming, biting, hitting, etc. kids, that I need to pack everything by Saturday and have 2 boxes packed, that I need to focus on bills, book my flight and hotel and stuff for San Diego in August, that I have been feeling sick, or that my husband is not here, there is much more to worry about but I won't go into too much detail! lol.

Days like this make me feel like nothing can touch me.

But, don't worry.. the enemy won't let me off that easy.. I guarentee that tomorrow will be the worst day ever! Doesn't it always seem to end up like that?

I claim joyful good days for ever in the name of the Lord. :)

So I heard a new song today on Mix 106 and I really related to it. Although it is secular it has such an amazing underlying meaning.

Here are the lyrics:
I never thought that you would be the one to hold my heart
But you came around and you knocked me off the ground from the start

You put your arms around me
And I believe that it's easier for you to let me go
You put your arms around me and I'm home

How many times will let you me change my mind and turn around
I can't decide if I'll let you save my life or if I'll drown

I hope that you see right through my walls
I hope that you catch me, 'cause I'm already falling
I'll never let a love get so close
You put your arms around me and I'm home

The world is coming down on me and I can't find a reason to be loved
I never wanna leave you but I can't make you bleed if I'm alone

{ From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/c/christina-perri-lyrics/arms-lyrics.html }
You put your arms around me
And I believe that it's easier for you to let me go

I hope that you see right through my walls
I hope that you catch me, 'cause I'm already falling
I'll never let a love get so close
You put your arms around me and I'm home

I tried my best to never let you in to see the truth
And I've never opened up
I've never truly loved 'Till you put your arms around me
And I believe that it's easier for you to let me go


I hope that you see right through my walls
I hope that you catch me, 'cause I'm already falling
I'll never let a love get so close
You put your arms around me and I'm home

You put your arms around me and I'm home


Ugh.. I mean really?!? How perfect is this song? Love is such a splendid thing. No matter your age. When you find someone who makes you feel like the person God entended you to be and loves you like God loves you.. That is something truly remarkable.


I love the last line.. You put your arms around me and I'm home. <3 


8 more weeks until I will be "home".


Well, I suppose that is all that is on my mind for now.. Stay tuned as the days grow longer and my heart grows stronger.